Many victims of child sex trafficking attend school. How do we find them?
You may wonder:
If a child is being exploited on the weekends and attends school during the week, why don’t they tell someone? Why don’t they run away?
Below are excerpts from several survivors’ stories.
- Forced into addiction
- Basic life necessities threatened
- Looking for someone to trust
- Your own family exploits you
- Escaping is risky
- Manipulated by a “boyfriend”
- “You are not lovable, pretty or special.”
- Loved ones are threatened
Forced into addiction
Emma was trafficked by gang members here in the United States and was quickly forced to develop an addiction to different drugs found on the streets. Often, traffickers will introduce drugs to their victims as a way to control them and develop a dependency. The drugs act as an invisible chain.
Emma now lives with her extended family and is physically safe from her traffickers, and is still in the middle of recovering from her addiction.
Basic life necessities threatened
(although this story is not about a teen, many young survivors face situations similar to this woman’s story in different relationships.)
A Utah woman had been married to her husband for nineteen years when he forced her into sex trafficking. One day he told her that she needed to sell herself on the streets in order to pay their rent.
He was both physically and verbally abusive. He locked her out of the house and said she wasn’t allowed to come back until she made enough rent money from selling herself for sex.
It broke her heart. She didn’t understand why her husband was telling her to do this. She was confused why this man who said he loved her would force her to sell herself on the streets.
Looking for someone to trust
—Child sex trafficking survivor, 16 years old (US Department of Education)
Your own family exploits you
A woman put up an ad on Craigslist to sell her three teenage daughters aged thirteen, fourteen, and sixteen. She charged fifty dollars for one hour. Three men would come to the house, pay her fifty dollars, and rape her daughters while she left for the hour. She would then return after the hour was over.
The three daughters’ performance in school dropped significantly. Their self-confidence dropped and significantly changed from before.
The sixteen-year-old attempted suicide multiple times and upon further investigation, authorities found out what was going on in the home and the three girls were rescued.
Escaping is risky
One young teen wished someone would have simply asked her in a hotel lobby as she stared at the ground in fear, “Are you okay?” Her response would have been, “Please help me.”
O.U.R. Aftercare Director Jessica Mass asked her, “Were you afraid that your trafficker would have physically beat you if he heard you ask for help?” She said, “When you’re desperate it’s worth the risk, but as a young teenager, you have no idea who will actually take the steps to help you if you ask.”
Manipulated by a “boyfriend”
Rachel (name changed) was trafficked here in the U.S. when she was 14 years old by a man that she believed to be her boyfriend. Under the impression that he loved her, she was excited when he suggested that they plan a vacation together.
When they arrived in a nearby state, the “boyfriend” immediately turned on her. He demanded that she work the streets in order to pay for her portion of the vacation.
“You are not lovable, pretty or special.”
My brother and his friends sold me in our upper-middle-class town’s motel. One of them got the key while the other walked me to the motel room in clear daylight. I knew just what to do. I was seven. I don’t know if my mother gave him the idea to earn extra money, or if he was her errand boy so that if we were caught, she wouldn’t be implicated. I guess it’s a “thing” that, if you’re “easy” or trained to be raped, you might as well be sold to other people to be raped. My brother stood inside the room with me and asked me to trust him because everything would be okay.
As an adult, I’m coming to terms with everything that happened to me. With the help of a therapist, I’m trying to retrain my brain and have a clear vision of myself. They told me I was never lovable, or pretty or special. I wasn’t tough. These are the things I was told at a young age.
Loved ones are threatened
The sheriff’s office processed Tevan’s phone that was sitting in the Utah State Crime Lab and discovered as they dug deeper into the case, that an app had been downloaded onto his phone. A female or someone posing as a female on the other end of that app had encouraged Tevan to send an explicit video of himself.
“As soon as this person from the Ivory Coast knew that he had gotten through, he just started attacking him,” his mother said.
Even after the teen sent money — “all he had,” according to Peirce — to the person extorting him, the threats continued. This time, Tevan was told he should kill himself.
(It is important to note that sextortion situations similar to this can and do lead to trafficking. Once a child is in contact with an online predator, they may try to lead the child out of the home and force them into sex trafficking.)